Ermatrude Miranda Montecillo McIntosh
May 5, 1963 ~ October 10, 2025
Ermatrude Miranda (Montecillo) McIntosh passed away peacefully on October 10, 2025 in Plano, Texas at the age of 62. Erma was born to Romulo and Florida (Miranda) Montecillo in Siocon, Zamboanga del Norte, Philippines on May 5, 1963. Erma married Arlan McIntosh on December 26, 2003 in Honey Grove, Texas.
Arlan and Erma bought a home in Bonham, Texas in 2010. They made many friends and enjoyed getting together with them throughout the years. They enjoyed flea markets. Erma loved elderly people and children. She was a beacon of unconditional love and was a devoted sister and aunt.
She was a person of remarkable wit and humor, capable of bringing laughter and joy to every gathering. This playful spirit was balanced by a keen intelligence and strategic business acumen. Her philanthropic nature and profound kindness touched many lives. Her legacy is one of generosity and warmth, and her absence will be felt more deeply than words can convey.
Her family was the recipient of her boundless affection and unwavering support, particularly her nephews and nieces, whose education she valued above all.
She is survived by her husband, Arlan McIntosh; sisters, Catherine Montecillo Cheung and husband Jackson Cheung, Lorraine Montecillo Lee and husband Elvis Lee, Flora Montecillo and husband Kenneth Wayne Paul; six nephews and nieces; Dr. Jacqueline Patricia Cheung, Atty. Luis Lorenzo Cheung, Angela Concessa Cheung, Atty. Bryan Vince Lee and wife Atty. Mia Crisanta Lee, Child: Bryanna Christine Lee, Atty. Barry Vince Lee and wife Em Maree Lee, Child: Ezekiel Laurence Lee, Atty. Bea Veronica Lee and husband Atty. Vicente Fernandez III; and an extended family and friends.
A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, October 14, 2025 at 2:00PM at Mullican Little Funeral Home 754 State Hwy 56 East; Bells, Texas 75414. This service is for family members and close friends only.
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I worked with Erma for several years. We shared a client at Home Instead. Her client and co-workers loved her joyful and exuberant personality. She was a joy to work with.
Mama Erma’s spirit was full of humor, kindness, and generosity. She believed in me during my difficult moments, even when I thought I couldn’t make it. We may not have seen each other since 2003 but her light was always felt. The balikbayan boxes, the random messages asking how I was. It’s ironic that her last message to me was “Love you both” to me and Bryanna. I hope the people who spent more time with her know how privileged they are to have their lives touched by her. She loved fiercely and she taught me to pass my blessings forward to those in need. I will carry that in my heart forever. I miss you greatly Mama Erma. Until we see each other again.
Auntie erma – our funny aunt. She always had a joke up her sleeve and she knew how to make people laugh.
She was so generous. She sent us boxes with groceries that overfilled our pantry. I will forever remember her in the pasta and tomato sauce i’d be so happy to receive.
She put other people’s needs first and went to great lengths to help her family and friends.
She was so full of love. She loved uncle Arlan so dearly and wholeheartedly. She loved her family deeply, even when we were far away.
I will forever cherish our memories, Auntie erma. Your love, kindness and generosity will live with us forever. Till we meet again. We love you.
Mama Erma was one of the kindest person I have ever met. He generosity beyond herself was amazing. She supported me, together with my parents, during my bar exam and for that I am and will be forveverever grateful. She has likewise helped others in need by her balikbayan boxes. Before she left for the U.S, she was always the funny one during family gatherings which made ua sad when she left. Even then, she would still be funny by sharing memes and funny anecdotes in facebok. We love you mama erma and we will miss you. Know you will always be remembered as one of the kindest souls💖
There is no other soul that has the same kind of mix of joy, wit, generosity, and kindness as Auntie Erma’s… she brought so much laughter, bonding and happiness to everyone around her, all the while being so perceptive of everyone’s needs and quirks. She makes people feel seen, and she does not hesitate to offer help when needed. This selflessness is such a rarity… and I am very blessed to call myself Auntie Erma’s niece… I will do my best to follow the model she has set — that is, to live with an open hand, to laugh with a joyful heart.
Thank you for everything Auntie Erma, we love you very much🤍💚
I just now read this obituary on my friend, Erma. If any one reading this knows what happened to Erma to cause her death, please let me know