Bruce W. Spears Jr. was born on June 2, 1934 in Olean, New York to parents Bruce W. Spears, Sr. and Margaret E. Neenan Spears. He attended Portville Central schools where he participated in many activities including cross country running in which he won a state championship his senior year of high school. He joined the Air Force right after graduation leaving home in a blizzard and arriving to warm temperatures and sunshine in Texas. He often said, at that moment he knew he had made the right choice in coming to Texas.
One evening an Air Force buddy took him to a restaurant to show Bruce a girl that he was interested in. To his friend’s dismay, Bruce was quicker on the draw and asked her for her number first. This red headed, freckled face young woman from west Texas would, on June 25, 1960 become his wife. Together they would have two children, Margaret Lee Spears and Bruce W. Spears, III.
During his Air Force career, he would advance to the rank of Technical Sergeant in Radar Operations and was stationed at places such as Japan, Newfoundland, and Germany. He retired from the military in 1973 after 20 years. Leaving McDill AFB in Tampa Bay, Florida, the family made their way to Bells, Texas where they would make their home.
After his military career was over, Bruce worked at Gabberts Design Studio and Fine Furniture located in Dallas. He spent much of his time there setting up and servicing high end grandfather, mantle, and pendulum clocks in customers’ homes. When he wasn’t working, he was regularly involved in his children’s activities and sports. He could be seen on the sidelines cheering and encouraging not only his children but all children involved. At home, he spent many hours teaching how to hold a bat properly, shoot a basketball, listening to songs, poems, and speeches for recitals, working on race cars, and just playing games with his kids. He was a father figure to all his children’s friends, even making them eat all their vegetables when staying over for dinner.
When Grace, his wife, suddenly passed away in 1985, he took on the role of both parents, holding his little family together with strength, love, and determination. He cooked, cleaned, and helped his children heal from the loss of their mother. When grandchildren came along, he eagerly spent time with them, sharing his knowledge, experience, and love.
If you knew Bruce, you knew how much proper etiquette and manners meant to him. He taught his children and grandchildren proper table manners, how to shake hands and greet someone and how to conduct oneself with respect. These lessons will always be fondly remembered.
No words can completely describe what he meant to his family and friends. We will cherish his memory and hold his love close to our hearts. We will miss him dearly.
He is survived by his daughter, Margaret L. Hughes and fiancé, Mike Pruitt of Savoy, Texas; son, Buck W Spears and wife Connie of Bells; grandchildren Evin Hughes, Drake Spears, and Katie Spears, all of Bells; niece and caretaker, Linda Solly of Savoy. He is also survived by a sister, Wilda Johnson and husband Paul of Turtlepoint, Pennsylvania; brother, Don Loomis and wife Sally of San Antonio, Texas; sister, Emma Mehmel, and husband Tom of Hamilton, Ohio; and many members of extended family.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Bruce W. Spears, Sr and Margaret E. Neenan Spears, wife, Naomi Grace Johnson Spears, siblings Florence Spears Canfield, Bessie Spears Palmer, Stewart Bryce Spears, and Hugh Thomas Spears.
A visitation will be held on Wednesday January 19, 2022 6:00 – 8:00 PM at Mullican Little Funeral Home 754 State Hwy 56 E. Bells, Texas 75414. Funeral Services will be on Thursday January 20, 2022 at 2:00 PM at Mullican Little Funeral Home. Interment will follow at Rose Hill Cemetery in Bells.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to an organization of your choice.
Our prayers are with each of you. Bruce was such a wonderful man, he will truly be missed by all that knew him. We are proud to have called him our friend.
Sorry for your loss of Mr. Spears. He was always a very nice man. I got to know him at the Fire Dept. auctions. He would tell me, he had a list and for me to watch for his bids. I always got a kick out of him. I know the family will truly miss him. Cherish your memories, they will last forever.
Buck, Connie, & family,
Though we can’t be there with you to say goodbye to Bruce in person, our hearts are with you, and we trust that the Lord will comfort and guide you in the weeks ahead. We love you and will be in touch soon.
I was so heartbroken to hear of Bruce’s passing. I knew the Spears /Loomis family many years ago and the last 4 or 5 yrs I was able to get to know Bruce better thru his niece,Linda a childhood friend of 60+ yrs. Bruce was a true southern gentleman-holding the door,pulling out your child and respectful of women. Thank you Bruce for being the support system for Linda when she needed it and I know Linda was a companion and supporter of you as well. I know Bruce would have laughed at the last time I thought of him when I was getting out pickle “spears” for my granddaughter !! But I will remember him for many other things. Prayers for the family and friends. And special thoughts to Bruce’s siblings Emma, Don and Wilda. I still have fond memories of your visits to see Florence and family.
Love, Kathy Anticola Reinard